Okay, so I’ve had an account on Niteflirt for some time, but I must admit that I’ve rarely used it. If live domming was frequently uncomfortable for me, phone domming was even worse: without the human element of physical connection, I felt even more objectified than before. And bargaining for more time and thus more money always felt rather sleazy.
Nonetheless, many women seem to do really well with it. And most of those who do fall into one of two camps:
1. Women who will act like bitches and treat you like shit, and
2. Women who pick up the phone and then ignore you.
When I first found this second one out, I was flabbergasted. I mean, I know about the whole bitch-goddess thing; I don’t do it and never did, because I think it’s ridiculous and kind of horrible to charge someone for your abuse.
But to charge someone to be ignored?? I mean, if I wanted that I’d call customer care at my credit card company.
What I wonder is: what do these women do while the men are on the other end ignoring them? Stay quiet? Do nothing? Go about their TV-watching or chatting on another phone with someone else? True, real ignoring can’t be the complete fantasy can it? I mean, maybe she’s masturbating or something and he can hear the sounds??
Talk to me, internets. What the fuck is going on with this ignoring fetish?
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