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All right folks, so here’s the deal:

As you know Bob, I stopped doing professional domination work some time back. I’m mostly on to other things.

However. Lately I’ve been having 1. a hankering, and 2. a bit of a financial squeeze. So I’m looking to potentially start seeing some people again.

Here’s the catch: Because this is no longer my primary source of income, I’m going to be limiting my practice to people I really want to see, who want to do the things I want to do. The flip side of this is that I’ll be lowering my tribute to well below the usual market.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you know a bit about who and how I am: I’m basically a smart, sensual, empathic top who likes to play with responsive people. Which is to say: I’m less interested in your stoic ability to take a hard beating than I am in hearing you gasp, moan and squeal as you take it. I like men with easy subspace triggers, but I also like a bit of a power struggle.

I like my feet worshipped well, and my boots also.
I like using floggers, singletails, canes and crops, and other hitty things.
I use rope, but I’m not a huge rope top. I’m more interested in functional bondage.
I like contact: slapping, punching, pinching, squeezing, kicking, and some smothering.
I like menacing you with knives.
I like authentic interaction, like, a whole lot.

I don’t care for piss, enemas, or anything else that potentially makes a big smelly mess.
I still don’t want to do forced feminization scenes.
However, all gender presentations are welcome, and if you want to play with gender in a respectful way, that definitely turns my crank.

There’s plenty more, of course, but it all depends on who you are and what you bring. If you have interests I didn’t mention here, please, let me know, and it’s possible I’ll be into it.

Email me directly if this is of interest to you!

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Folks, my computer was stolen last week and I hadn’t done a recent enough backup.  If you tried to contact me via email in the last little while, give it another shot:

Click here to do it, baby.

Ta!

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Hey everyone,

I spend a lot of time talking to people who are kinky but don’t know where to start, or are afraid to talk about it. I wanted to point out that NELA, the fabulous group of kinksters in New England who run the semi-annual Fetish Fair Fleamarket and bring so much education and fun to the Boston kink community, are holding a BDSM 101 class this Wednesday night, from 8-10 at 119 Braintree St, Ste 208, Allston, MA.

Only beginners are allowed at this class, so it’s a place where you can be sure that everyone is just as clueless as you are. It’s a safe environment for learning and asking questions, and will be run by Vivian and Scott, two old-schoolers who have been around the block, tied it up, and given it quite a few whacks in their day.

I hope some of you will go out and take advantage of this class. For more info, see NELA’s website and click on the event.

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Recently, Maymay, my favorite young sexuality warrior, was attacked by two women named Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks, who are affiliated with the branch of the Salvation Army that deals with sex trafficking. They set about to defame him, name him a pedophile and a generally disgusting human being, and make out his KinkForAll unconferences to be recruitment centers for children to become involved in “violent and unhealthy sexual practices.”

Anyone who knows Maymay knows what an earnest, intelligent, caring and free person he is. His recent post, where he responds to the woman who alerted him to the bulletin by first writing a ranty post, then gracefully apologizing for her anger, is nothing short of inspiring.

As one commenter said, I want to be like him when I grow up.

At the moment, he’s looking for support, which is why I’m making this post to begin with. If you have a moment and care about the cause of sexual freedom and education, please check out his post and signal boost it.

In specific, he asks that you follow these guidelines:

* Refer to me as maymay.
* Name Donna M. Hughes and Margaret Brooks as the sources of attacks.
* Do express your opinion, but do so civilly. Do not use hateful language when you refer to Donna M. Hughes, Margaret Brooks, or their affiliates.
* Link to my blog post(s) about this[0][1] and the posts of my friends,[2][3] but NOT to Donna M. Hughes’ or Margaret Brooks’ writings; linking there merely amplifies their damage.
* Link to your friends’ blog posts who have written about this when they do.
* Quote my blog if you feel tongue-tied or inarticulate.

It is my hope that all of us can rise to his example in this fight. We’ve all been Ranty McRantypants from time to time; in the blogosphere, it’s easy to do so. Attempting rational discourse and bridge-building is just incredible in this sphere, but it looks like it has begun.

Let’s go.

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Signal-boosting here, for a grant application that Maymay and Emma have out. They’re planning a great project seeking to highlight that sex education comes from everywhere, not just high school health class, and to spread the word about the importance of accurate and reliable sex ed.

A bit from their page:

Our vision of lasting change is to create a world in which accurate information about sexual health and freedoms reaches more students and young people than suffer from misinformation or a knowledge deficit. By engaging young people in the creation and distribution of knowledge, we hope to help them recognize their power to enact social justice in their local communities. This would be a world in which women and young people are aware of their sexual and reproductive rights from an early age, and are empowered to make informed decisions for themselves and educate those around them.

Awesome as usual, Maymay. To boost their vote count, click here!

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Fetlife giveaway…

Yes, I admit it…I’m pimping Fetlife’s awesome contest here because every time I do, I get another chance to win. 🙂

Fetlife, through its generous advertisers, is giving away a whole lot of amazing stuff – including an NJoy 11 (mine!), corsetry, serious bondage gear, and much more.

Check it out!

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A reminder: Topologies

I’m writing in two places now.

Go check out Topologies for the viewpoints of me and two other fab dominant women on what it means to be dominant and female.

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