Marina Abramović: pain, presence, art and kink

I’ve been pretty silent here for a while. There are reasons, of course; there always are. But I would like to be saying more in this space. It’s just that the things that are happening to me in the kink realm seem increasingly private, and it’s hard to talk about them in a space where [...]

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Poor Ray Gosling

I was listening to my local NPR station in the car the other day and was overcome with sadness when I heard this short news story: Ray Gosling, a longtime BBC presenter, confessed on-air to killing his lover more than 20 years ago – smothering him with a pillow when the pain from AIDS had [...]

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Sploosh/food play and foot fetish

New clip available on my site. My good friend Madeline and I getting a slave to lick nasty junkfood cupcakes off our bare feet. Ah, the silliness of this life… Get it here.

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Rape scene, or fetishized consent? Or, I finally saw Blade Runner

I cannot stop watching this movie. And I can’t believe I went all of these years without seeing this beautiful, strange, moving and problematic piece of cinema. I finally saw it this weekend – twice in as many days – and I’m ready to watch it again, soaking in it the way I soaked in [...]

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New video clip alert! OTK, anyone?

There’s a new video clip up at my clips store of me spanking the crap out of a sissy over my knee. Bare hand, hairbrush, paddles, you name it. He whines hilariously, too. .wmv and .mov formats are up; more are coming. Enjoy!

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New clips up at my clips store!

I’ve got a new trampling clip up in several different formats at my clips store. Please to enjoy. Next week there should be a new OTK spanking clip, and then if I can keep my videographer hoppin’, we’ll get many more clips up (I’m hoping for one new one per week) in the next few [...]

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Video shoot of great hotness

This past weekend’s video shoot was a smashing success, and I can’t wait to see the results. We shot with the voluptuous Madeline, who at nearly six feet tall with a stunning fall of naturally red hair is quite a match for me. (Good thing, too, since I happen to love her something terrible.) While [...]

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Building content

I’ll be doing a video shoot tomorrow, after rather a long hiatus. It can be difficult, since my videographer lives in New York, but we get him up here to Boston whenever we can to shoot. The last video work I did was actually with the inestimable Trigger in Minnesota. He’s one of the best-known [...]

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