Someone just friended me on Facebook whom I haven’t seen in a while: an adorable, pigtailed, somewhat gender-queer boy I’ll call Paul. Paul is younger than I am, very smart, but generally demure around me in a way that drives me crazy. In that good way.
Looking at his picture, I’m reminded [...]
Posts Tagged ‘the me guide’
Bad, bad dominant
Posted in Sexuality, tagged gender, kink psychology, objectification, polyamory, switching, the me guide, things we don't talk about on October 25, 2009 | 3 Comments »
Switching
Posted in Sexuality, Smut, tagged anal sex, power exchange, switching, the me guide on August 19, 2009 | 2 Comments »
I’ve always had a thing for topping dominant men. There’s just something so delicious about taking someone who’s caused you so much pain and pleasure and making them squirm.
Even nicer, though, is topping other switches. Switches are some of my favorite people to play with, actually, and I’m lucky to be in a [...]
Strap-ons: Yet Another Alternate View
Posted in Philosophizing, Sexuality, Smut, tagged anal sex, clients, gender, links, power exchange, strap-on, the me guide on July 24, 2009 | 9 Comments »
So it may come as a surprise to no one that now that I’ve quit the pro-domming business, I’ve been having wicked fantasies about doing terrible, terrible things to lovely boys and men. I mean, it’s like the old joke about the gynecologist, right?
Well, sort of. See, I’ve had a thing about Not [...]
Why I Stopped: or, Integration is the Watch Word
Posted in Explainers, Kink and Healing, tagged clients, evolution, feet, professional, the me guide on July 16, 2009 | 7 Comments »
I’ve been thinking a lot about why I stopped doing professional domination per se, and the more I talk about it with friends and loved ones, the clearer it becomes.
So I thought I’d talk about it here a bit.
When I talk about this, I talk about a number of different reasonings for quitting: the work [...]
So, now what do I do?
Posted in Alerts, Explainers, tagged evolution, links, professional, the me guide on June 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I made an announcement recently that I’m quitting the domming business. So, you might ask, what am I doing now?
I’ve added a new permanent page to this blog which describes the services I’m currently providing in some detail.
Check it out.
In which I call it quits
Posted in Alerts, Kink and Healing, tagged evolution, professional, the me guide, welcome on May 27, 2009 | 3 Comments »
Dear everyone,
I quit. The end.
But seriously, folks.
This is the part where I let you all know that I’m moving on. I’ve known for a while that I’m done with this work in its current incarnation, and that it’s time for me to do something that’s more in line with my values and [...]
Video shoot of great hotness
Posted in Shoots, Smut, tagged genderfuck, links, strap-on, the me guide, video on April 8, 2009 | 1 Comment »
This past weekend’s video shoot was a smashing success, and I can’t wait to see the results. We shot with the voluptuous Madeline, who at nearly six feet tall with a stunning fall of naturally red hair is quite a match for me. (Good thing, too, since I happen to love her something [...]