Tuesday Advice: We’re not always kinky here

I was moved by the letter I got this week, and though it’s not topical in terms of kink, it’s a complex question about alternative relationships that might as well be discussed here as anywhere.
I welcome your questions, not only about kink, but about polyamory, bisexuality, and any other relational issues you think [...]

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Tuesday Advice: The Simplicity Edition

Sometimes I get the tough questions. Sometimes I get the easy ones. I’ll be grateful and consider today a vacation in honor of Thanksgiving week.
Dear Delilah,
Not sure if you’ve answered this or not but someone asked me the other day what kind of kinky things he can do with his gf without leaving [...]

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Monday Tuesday Advice

Ever since my alter-ego took on a new writing assignment, I’ve been having some trouble getting the advice out on Mondays. I’m considering changing the day of the week I do it. But for now, I give you Monday Advice on Tuesday.
Dear Delilah,
My partner N and I have been together for well over [...]

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Bad, bad dominant

Someone just friended me on Facebook whom I haven’t seen in a while: an adorable, pigtailed, somewhat gender-queer boy I’ll call Paul. Paul is younger than I am, very smart, but generally demure around me in a way that drives me crazy. In that good way.
Looking at his picture, I’m reminded [...]

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It’s Monday…Time for your questions!

Ah…spring finally feels like it’s here. The blood is starting to flow again, and I’m looking forward to having more appointments, doing more shoots, and having more hot sex. But first – your questions!
We start with a nice long complex one. Mmm, juicy!
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Dear Delilah,
About a year and a half ago I started dating [...]

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