A few weeks ago, I had a letter from someone who wanted her partner to top her, but she had more experience and wound up topping from below. This week, we have the flip side of that issue.
I recently declined to get involved with a close friend of mine. I’m an experienced domme, he’s [...]
Posts Tagged ‘newbies’
Monday Advice: Asymmetrical Experience
Posted in Advice, tagged newbies, power exchange, relationships on July 20, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Monday Advice: Submissive Sheep Syndrome
Posted in Advice, tagged communication, newbies, power exchange on July 13, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Dear Delilah,
Lately, I’ve found myself fooling around — let’s say somewhere in the between-second-and-third-base range — with two different women who, while seemingly very different, are very alike in a couple of very specific ways. Mainly, they’re both extremely subby.
I have nothing against their subbiness, per se; I’m very much of the “do whatever works [...]
Monday Advice: Even More Topping from Below
Posted in Advice, tagged books, how-to, links, newbies, power exchange, relationships on July 6, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Good morning, perverts!
I hope everyone had a fabulous holiday weekend; I certainly did, especially since the gods decided to finally stop doing nonconsensual watersports with us. The timing of their reprieve couldn’t have been better, and I spent the weekend walking in the sun, sitting around a fire, eating far too much grilled meat [...]
Monday, Monday…So Good To Me
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, kink psychology, newbies, relationships on March 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
It’s advice time again, and I’ve got some nice juicy questions this week. Spring is struggling into being here in Massachusetts, but I do feel the stirrings…so before my mind races off to the horrible things I’d like to be doing to various people, let’s get right to it.
Dear Delilah,
Any tips on deprogramming a [...]
Safewords 101
Posted in Explainers, tagged clients, fantasies, how-to, links, newbies, safety, safewords on March 26, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Seeing as my most recent advice column mentioned safewords in both answers, I figured it was time for me to do my philosophizing about safewords – mostly for future reference.
Some of you may be familiar with Jay Wiseman; his SM 101 is a great book for those starting out in BDSM, and his near-paranoia about [...]
Monday Advice Time! – The Beginner’s Corner
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, how-to, newbies, power exchange, safewords, training, vanilla vs. kinky on March 23, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Hello, all! Today I have two questions from people just starting out; let’s hope that I can give them some good insight and not send them running screaming from all things kink.
If you’d like to ask me a question, write me at delilah@dommedelilah.com, or if you’re really brave, comment here!
Now: on [...]
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