I was reading back in Bitchy Jones’ Diary last night and was again stirred and moved and amused and made curious by it. I have to be careful over there, as her blog never fails to draw me in to several hours of reading. When I first picked up on her blog nearly a year [...]
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Monday Advice: Reluctant Partners
Posted in Advice, tagged communication, dating, how-to, kink psychology, myths, power exchange, relationships, safewords, trampling on April 20, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Today I answer two letters that deal with the question: what happens when one of the partners in a desired BDSM scenario is reluctant for one reason or another? It’s a tricky one, but not unsolvable. I have to say, you are almost a dead ringer for my fiancee. She is also six feet tall, [...]
As promised: Safewords 201 – Some common misconceptions
Posted in Explainers, tagged kink psychology, myths, noncon, safety, safewords on March 27, 2009 | 2 Comments »
My basic informational post about safewords is here. There are a few notions about safewords, however, that I’ve come across and would like to take a moment to dispel. Myth #1: Safewords are only for players who don’t know each other well. While it’s true that in part, the use of safewords is for the [...]
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