Tuesday Advice! Yes, it’s Wednesday. But, sugar daddies!

It’s been a while since I’ve been answering questions here, but I got one recently and have been stewing on it a bit. Here’s my stab at it. Dear Delilah: I hope you had a delightfully kinky May Day! Maybe the change in season will inspire a fever of questions . I know I have [...]

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Tuesday Advice: Marks without pain??

Okay, admittedly, I’ve often heard questions about how to do play without marks. But I’ve rarely received the reverse. But there’s a first time for everything. Dear Delilah, I really like it when my partner leaves marks on me that last a few days, so that I can look at them as they fade and [...]

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Tuesday Advice: Shifting identities

This week’s question is a doozy, and it comes at a time when I’ve been thinking about the topic of identity a lot. A big post is in the offing about shifting identities, switching, genderfuck, orientation, and a whole bunch of other shit that I found myself navigating this past weekend. But now, to the [...]

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Tuesday Advice, back at last! Now with more choking!

It’s been a while, as I haven’t had a backlog of questions. (You people are obviously just too well-adjusted. Or you think my advice stinks. Or something. Anyway!) I have a new question this week that’s fairly simple, but may send me off on a tear about the topic anyway. So here goes. My partner [...]

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Tuesday Advice: The Simplicity Edition

Sometimes I get the tough questions. Sometimes I get the easy ones. I’ll be grateful and consider today a vacation in honor of Thanksgiving week. Dear Delilah, Not sure if you’ve answered this or not but someone asked me the other day what kind of kinky things he can do with his gf without leaving [...]

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Help me out here.

So, I’m working again on adding social networking links to my posts. Since I’m currently having WordPress host this blog, and plug-ins aren’t allowed, this is a manual proposition. (Kinky.) Anyway, I’ve got Fetspank up there (Maymay, is there any way to make the link display your URL and post title? I’m dyin’, here), and [...]

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Monday Advice: A Sad Day

Oh woe, for lo, I am all out of questions. The advice column depends on your questions! Comment here, or write to me with your questions, so that the column may resume!

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Monday Advice: Unsafewords

Dear Delilah: I have a very easy safeword with any play partner where safewords would be needed – I say their name. I don’t really say much during sex-or-kink anyhow, so the push of speaking at all plus the push of specifically saying their name makes it a useful safeword, in my opinion. The problem [...]

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Monday Advice: Trickster Followup

Hey, Delilah, So, just wanted to follow up and say that I’ve moved, and now I’m in my new place unpacking and it’s just so much more awesome than packing was. So what can you tell me about the process? Yours, Sees Evidence of Light, Finally Dear SELF, Nice to hear from you again. Here’s [...]

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Monday Advice: Even More Topping from Below

Good morning, perverts! I hope everyone had a fabulous holiday weekend; I certainly did, especially since the gods decided to finally stop doing nonconsensual watersports with us. The timing of their reprieve couldn’t have been better, and I spent the weekend walking in the sun, sitting around a fire, eating far too much grilled meat [...]

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