“Now when I look at myself I feel like a woman,” says Ngozi, who says she has even experienced orgasms for the first time in her life. “It’s beautiful, I just love it, it feels like you’re melting. Before it irritated me when my husband tried to touch me, now I reach out to him.”
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Posts Tagged ‘gender’
This about made me weep with joy today…
Posted in Sexuality, tagged gender, links, news, things we don't talk about on October 25, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Bad, bad dominant
Posted in Sexuality, tagged gender, kink psychology, objectification, polyamory, switching, the me guide, things we don't talk about on October 25, 2009 | 3 Comments »
Someone just friended me on Facebook whom I haven’t seen in a while: an adorable, pigtailed, somewhat gender-queer boy I’ll call Paul. Paul is younger than I am, very smart, but generally demure around me in a way that drives me crazy. In that good way.
Looking at his picture, I’m reminded [...]
Strap-ons: Yet Another Alternate View
Posted in Philosophizing, Sexuality, Smut, tagged anal sex, clients, gender, links, power exchange, strap-on, the me guide on July 24, 2009 | 9 Comments »
So it may come as a surprise to no one that now that I’ve quit the pro-domming business, I’ve been having wicked fantasies about doing terrible, terrible things to lovely boys and men. I mean, it’s like the old joke about the gynecologist, right?
Well, sort of. See, I’ve had a thing about Not [...]
WTF of the day
Posted in Alerts, Rants, WTF, Websites, tagged bigotry, facepalm, gender, links on April 29, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
So, I’m looking for places to post news of my clips going up (like ya do), and my videographer points me to Mistress Destiny’s Femdom forums.
I’m reading along in the rules of the forum, which all seem relatively reasonable, until I come across this little gem:
Do not dispute the sex of another member on an [...]
Showgirls: Two Hours and Eight Minutes I’ll Never Get Back
Posted in Rants, tagged facepalm, gender, links, media, objectification, race on April 17, 2009 | 3 Comments »
I finally got the opportunity, if it can be so called, to watch Showgirls last night. My very limited knowledge of this movie was limited to 1. its being unstoppably awful, and 2. its being a cult classic, especially admired by the drag queen set. My boyfriend has a habit of having the [...]