Through Orlando’s Tumblr page, which is already hot enough to keep me distracted, I’ve stumbled across the Leathermen Tumblr page, which might be enough to destroy my productivity forever. Particularly distracting thus far are this image of a top wringing a washcloth (presumably full of his own sweat) over the bound and bruised body of [...]
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I’m really a gay leather boy
Posted in Explainers, Photos, Sexuality, Smut, tagged dating, evolution, fantasies, gender, history, identity, leather, links, queer on July 22, 2010 | 4 Comments »
Monday Advice: Consensual non-consent
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, noncon, power exchange on September 28, 2009 | 4 Comments »
I have a sweetie with whom do a lot of (scorching) “non-consensual” play. We sometimes have difficulties negotiating in scene. It works if I come out of subspace enough to chirp a campy “Oh no! Not that! Please don’t make me come. That would be too humiliating!” But, I have to tear myself out of [...]
Monday Advice: The Philosophy Edition
Posted in Advice, Kink and Healing, Philosophizing, tagged fantasies, kink psychology on July 27, 2009 | 2 Comments »
As if by magic, this week I’ve had a question dropped in my lap that touches the root of all the discussion that’s been going on here triggered by that old post about not asking why. This one takes it away from the radfem discussions and the political questioning of desire that so often leads [...]
Monday Advice – The Memorial Day edition
Posted in Advice, tagged communication, fantasies, kink psychology, links on May 26, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Yes, just as your mail comes a day late and you don’t put the garbage out if you normally have a Monday morning pickup, I too am a lazy bitch who takes the Memorial Day holiday off. Seeing as I spent the weekend at a three-day playparty, however, I think I can still consider myself [...]
Monday, Monday…So Good To Me
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, kink psychology, newbies, relationships on March 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
It’s advice time again, and I’ve got some nice juicy questions this week. Spring is struggling into being here in Massachusetts, but I do feel the stirrings…so before my mind races off to the horrible things I’d like to be doing to various people, let’s get right to it. Dear Delilah, Any tips on deprogramming [...]
Safewords 101
Posted in Explainers, tagged clients, fantasies, how-to, links, newbies, safety, safewords on March 26, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Seeing as my most recent advice column mentioned safewords in both answers, I figured it was time for me to do my philosophizing about safewords – mostly for future reference. Some of you may be familiar with Jay Wiseman; his SM 101 is a great book for those starting out in BDSM, and his near-paranoia [...]
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In which I show my true colors
Posted in Media Commentary, tagged fantasies, interrogation, the me guide on January 22, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
[Note: for those of you who watch Lost and haven't yet reached the Season 5 episode "He's Our You" - SPOILER ALERT - READ NO FURTHER!] I’ve mentioned in this space before that I have a thing for interrogation scenes, and that that fact scares me a bit. In fact, the more I’ve gotten into [...]
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