Switching

I’ve always had a thing for topping dominant men. There’s just something so delicious about taking someone who’s caused you so much pain and pleasure and making them squirm.
Even nicer, though, is topping other switches. Switches are some of my favorite people to play with, actually, and I’m lucky to be in a [...]

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The one time I did – Part 2

[Part 1 is here.]
I’ve taken the cuffs off of him and for a moment we’re equals, dropped lightly out of the scene and into a few seconds of friendly conversation, laced with compassion and care.
“I haven’t been to that place in a long time,” he tells me again. “I so needed it.”
“I’m not done [...]

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Strap-ons: Yet Another Alternate View

So it may come as a surprise to no one that now that I’ve quit the pro-domming business, I’ve been having wicked fantasies about doing terrible, terrible things to lovely boys and men. I mean, it’s like the old joke about the gynecologist, right?
Well, sort of. See, I’ve had a thing about Not [...]

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Tuesday Advice – Because Monday Came too Soon This Week

Apologies for missing the usual Monday advice column; I hope I can make it up to you by posting it late today. Remember – send me questions at delilah@dommedelilah.com, or comment here on the blog!
I had a question long ago that went simply like this:
I would love to hear your recommendations on the best [...]

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And once again, Dan Savage FTW

One of my astute readers pointed out, in response to my post yesterday about SexinChrist.com, that Dan Savage ran a contest just a couple of months ago to find a meaning for the word ’saddlebacking.’ His purpose was to protest Rick Warren’s (pastor of Saddleback Church) inclusion in Obama’s inauguration; the man is apparently [...]

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How deep in Christ do you want me to go?

Somebody please tell me that this is a joke.
While searching for links to the anal sex books I like for the other day’s post, I stumbled across (and barked my metaphysical shins against, and broke my brain upon) a site called Sex In Christ. Among the many things I experienced while looking at its [...]

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Monday Advice Time

Well, this weekend was a blast – I’ll certainly be writing about it later, and posting links here when the videos go up. Suffice it to say for now that I worked hard and I’m still not fully recovered, but I think we got some great material.
But now, to your questions! This week, [...]

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