My professional services

As of this writing, I am no longer doing the usual work of a professional dominatrix, except for certain regulars. I have shifted the focus of my business, and am now offering the following services. Feel free to contact me if you are interested in any of them.

Kink Consults for Individuals, Couples or Intimate Groups
I offer my expertise to people who are interested in learning how to integrate kink into their own relationships, increase their technical skill levels in kink, get past blocks that keep them from realizing their kinky dreams, and combinations of the above. After an initial consult, I will work with you for whatever number of sessions makes sense to help you achieve your goals. Please note: I am not a psychotherapist, though I have some training as a counselor.

Atonement Sessions, or Ordeal Pathwork
Some people turn to kink for reasons that are chiefly non-sexual, particularly certain types of pain play. Many religious traditions have age-old practices for purification involving pain. I have often been honored with the task of helping a person seeking some kind of redemption to achieve a cathartic release through extreme sensation. While this type of session can be extremely intimate, it can be difficult to seek this type of emotional purgation with your romantic partner, who may not wish to hurt you too severely. These types of sessions are non-sexual in nature, and involve me priestessing your experience in a safe, spiritual space.

Gender Transformation and Hypnosis
I no longer do “forced feminization” scenes that are chiefly about humiliation. However, I will do sessions with people of any gender identity who are interested in experiencing the other side of the coin in a safe, boundaried way. I will consult with people on shopping trips to help them make good decisions for their body types and budget, as well as doing full transformation sessions with them in private. I may or may not, at the client’s discretion, include hypnosis techniques in order to induce suggestions that can be triggered by the client in the future.

Written Advice

Write to me or comment in my blog with your questions about kink, and I’ll answer them in my Monday column.