“Now when I look at myself I feel like a woman,” says Ngozi, who says she has even experienced orgasms for the first time in her life. “It’s beautiful, I just love it, it feels like you’re melting. Before it irritated me when my husband tried to touch me, now I reach out to him.”
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This about made me weep with joy today…
Posted in Sexuality, tagged gender, links, news, things we don't talk about on October 25, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Bad, bad dominant
Posted in Sexuality, tagged gender, kink psychology, objectification, polyamory, switching, the me guide, things we don't talk about on October 25, 2009 | 3 Comments »
Someone just friended me on Facebook whom I haven’t seen in a while: an adorable, pigtailed, somewhat gender-queer boy I’ll call Paul. Paul is younger than I am, very smart, but generally demure around me in a way that drives me crazy. In that good way.
Looking at his picture, I’m reminded [...]
Switching
Posted in Sexuality, Smut, tagged anal sex, power exchange, switching, the me guide on August 19, 2009 | 2 Comments »
I’ve always had a thing for topping dominant men. There’s just something so delicious about taking someone who’s caused you so much pain and pleasure and making them squirm.
Even nicer, though, is topping other switches. Switches are some of my favorite people to play with, actually, and I’m lucky to be in a [...]
Strap-ons: Yet Another Alternate View
Posted in Philosophizing, Sexuality, Smut, tagged anal sex, clients, gender, links, power exchange, strap-on, the me guide on July 24, 2009 | 9 Comments »
So it may come as a surprise to no one that now that I’ve quit the pro-domming business, I’ve been having wicked fantasies about doing terrible, terrible things to lovely boys and men. I mean, it’s like the old joke about the gynecologist, right?
Well, sort of. See, I’ve had a thing about Not [...]