Blink and two months go by.

Wow, I haven’t been here in a while, and for that, I apologize. It’s been a bit of a crazy time around these here parts. I’m going to be back to answering advice questions shortly – I’ve got one in the can about sugar daddies that I’m still mulling over. But today I just want [...]

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TransformativeKink.com is now live!

Friends, kinksters, countrypeople, Tuesday Advice has been on hiatus for a bit, mainly owing to nobody sending me questions of late. It is my hope that the launch of my new site will begin to remedy that, as well as bring me new opportunities to see people who would benefit from the kind of help [...]

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Help me out here.

So, I’m working again on adding social networking links to my posts. Since I’m currently having WordPress host this blog, and plug-ins aren’t allowed, this is a manual proposition. (Kinky.) Anyway, I’ve got Fetspank up there (Maymay, is there any way to make the link display your URL and post title? I’m dyin’, here), and [...]

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Fetspanking

Hello, those of you reading: If you really like a post of mine, please hit the button that looks like this: and recommend it to others. I’m looking to build my readership and get more plugged in to the sex blogger community; please help! Thanks!

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Monday Advice – The Trickster Edition

Dear Delilah, So say you’re going along just fine in your life and you’re getting ready to pack up your house and move to a new one, when you discover a bedbug crawling on your husband’s sock. Right there on his sock, while he’s wearing it, bold as brass! You thought your bedbug infestation was [...]

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A simple but amusing thing…

Does anyone else, when commenting on BDSM blogs, find it only slightly but consistently amusing when they finish their post and hit the button marked “Submit”? I swear, it gives me a little chuckle every time.

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Bitchy made me do it

I was reading back in Bitchy Jones’ Diary last night and was again stirred and moved and amused and made curious by it. I have to be careful over there, as her blog never fails to draw me in to several hours of reading. When I first picked up on her blog nearly a year [...]

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And once again, Dan Savage FTW

One of my astute readers pointed out, in response to my post yesterday about SexinChrist.com, that Dan Savage ran a contest just a couple of months ago to find a meaning for the word ‘saddlebacking.’ His purpose was to protest Rick Warren’s (pastor of Saddleback Church) inclusion in Obama’s inauguration; the man is apparently a [...]

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The top ten…tomorrow

I had this idea that I would go through all of my old emails and find the weirdest and funniest things that people have sent to me over the years…but it turns out that this is a much longer project than I anticipated. So you’ll get that post tomorrow, methinks. Today you get a meta-post [...]

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