Welcome! I’m Delilah, formerly a professional dominatrix in the Boston area. Now I’m a kink counselor and educator, offering individual and couple/group sessions to people who want to learn how to bring kink safely into their own lives.
I’ve been doing this for a while now, and people keep writing me and asking me advice on kinky matters. Since I consider my style of dominance to be a healing art, I figured I’d start answering questions publicly, for the edification of whomever cares to read. I’m also migrating my Livejournal blog to this site, and plan to write regularly about my life in the kink world. Once a week on Mondays, I’ll answer your letters.
So go ahead. Ask me anything. Questions about professional dominance? About BDSM in general? About that weird-ass thing you’re sure only you’re into? How do I get my girlfriend to dominate me? How to I get invited to a play party? Can you get an STD from a sex toy? Where do I get good rope? What if what I like is really strange…?
Ask away. Trust me, I’ve probably heard it before, and I may even be able to help.
If you want to ask me a question, write me at delilah@dommedelilah.com. I’ll do my best to publish an answer for you, and will let you know when and if I have done so via email.
Hello, would you know how to have a submissive like me involuntarily committed to a pyschiatric unit? i have always wanted to commit to such an extreme scene where the Domina has direct influence over how the treating phsycians perceive my mental state.
I don’t often say this, but your kink is not okay.
In seriousness, though, I would never do something like this, and I doubt you could find someone who would. Intense roleplay is one thing. Manipulating the medical profession for kinky ends is quite another. What you’re suggesting would also be quite impossible, seeing as no non-M.D. domina could have influence over how the doctors would treat you, nor could she have you committed without a full psych workup.
I suppose if you found a Domina who was an MD and completely unethical, you could do something like this. My advice to you, though, is to get someone to roleplay this with you. Some fantasies are best left as fantasy.