I’ve been behind on my current events, in particular reading the sex blogs I generally frequent, since my move. But I’m starting to catch up, so let the outrage begin. Exactly one month ago, Maymay posted about a This Week in Kink podcast in which the following statement appeared: I firmly and strongly believe that [...]
Archive for September, 2009
This week in WTF: Fevered Egos
Posted in Rants, Websites, WTF, tagged facepalm, things people say on September 30, 2009 | 16 Comments »
Monday Advice: Consensual non-consent
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, noncon, power exchange on September 28, 2009 | 4 Comments »
I have a sweetie with whom do a lot of (scorching) “non-consensual” play. We sometimes have difficulties negotiating in scene. It works if I come out of subspace enough to chirp a campy “Oh no! Not that! Please don’t make me come. That would be too humiliating!” But, I have to tear myself out of [...]
Monday Advice: Unsafewords
Posted in Advice, tagged communication, how-to, safewords, things we don't talk about on September 21, 2009 | 4 Comments »
Dear Delilah: I have a very easy safeword with any play partner where safewords would be needed – I say their name. I don’t really say much during sex-or-kink anyhow, so the push of speaking at all plus the push of specifically saying their name makes it a useful safeword, in my opinion. The problem [...]
Monday Advice is back – with a review
Posted in Advice, Film, tagged kink in media, kink psychology on September 14, 2009 | 2 Comments »
I’m just about settled into my new place and I couldn’t be happier with its extreme peachyness. I’m sitting here at my quiet desk and finally ready to answer some questions again. Fucking *phew*. This week I watched the 2002 movie Secretary with my lover of 10 months, who is the first person with whom [...]
Monday Advice: Trickster Followup
Posted in Advice, Silliness, tagged facepalm, how-to, insanity, the horror, things we don't talk about, toys on September 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Hey, Delilah, So, just wanted to follow up and say that I’ve moved, and now I’m in my new place unpacking and it’s just so much more awesome than packing was. So what can you tell me about the process? Yours, Sees Evidence of Light, Finally Dear SELF, Nice to hear from you again. Here’s [...]
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