It has not escaped my notice that I have a hot spot for interrogation scenes. Okay, maybe a wet spot would be more accurate. But there’s a mystery to it for me. While I admit to enjoying the rush of power that comes from hurting someone until they break, the place I [...]
Archive for April, 2009
WTF of the day
Posted in Alerts, Rants, WTF, Websites, tagged bigotry, facepalm, gender, links on April 29, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
So, I’m looking for places to post news of my clips going up (like ya do), and my videographer points me to Mistress Destiny’s Femdom forums.
I’m reading along in the rules of the forum, which all seem relatively reasonable, until I come across this little gem:
Do not dispute the sex of another member on an [...]
Monday Advice: Topping from Below, and Other Tricky Etiquette Matters
Posted in Advice, Explainers, tagged bdsm, clients, ettiquette, groundrules, how-to, links, negotiation, professional, topping from below on April 27, 2009 | 1 Comment »
I’m answering one question today, since its content seems to have launched me into a complete post about the topic. Given my general long-windedness, this may become a pattern. But please: do continue to send your questions to delilah@dommedelilah.com , or comment here with your kinky queries, and I will answer them in [...]
New video clip alert! OTK, anyone?
Posted in Alerts, Smut, tagged links, spanking, video on April 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
There’s a new video clip up at my clips store of me spanking the crap out of a sissy over my knee. Bare hand, hairbrush, paddles, you name it. He whines hilariously, too.
.wmv and .mov formats are up; more are coming. Enjoy!
Monday Advice: Reluctant Partners
Posted in Advice, tagged communication, dating, how-to, kink psychology, myths, power exchange, relationships, safewords, trampling on April 20, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Today I answer two letters that deal with the question: what happens when one of the partners in a desired BDSM scenario is reluctant for one reason or another? It’s a tricky one, but not unsolvable.
I have to say, you are almost a dead ringer for my fiancee. She is also six feet [...]
Showgirls: Two Hours and Eight Minutes I’ll Never Get Back
Posted in Rants, tagged facepalm, gender, links, media, objectification, race on April 17, 2009 | 3 Comments »
I finally got the opportunity, if it can be so called, to watch Showgirls last night. My very limited knowledge of this movie was limited to 1. its being unstoppably awful, and 2. its being a cult classic, especially admired by the drag queen set. My boyfriend has a habit of having the [...]
Boston Area Sex Workers Beware
Posted in Alerts, tagged insanity, links on April 16, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
There’s a murderer trolling Craigslist for women offering massage, or so the pattern seems to show. He’s killed one in a hotel room and apparently robbed another at gunpoint.
Please ladies: be careful out there.
New clips up at my clips store!
Posted in Alerts, Photos, tagged feet, shoes, trampling, video on April 14, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve got a new trampling clip up in several different formats at my clips store. Please to enjoy.
Next week there should be a new OTK spanking clip, and then if I can keep my videographer hoppin’, we’ll get many more clips up (I’m hoping for one new one per week) in the next few [...]