It’s advice time again, and I’ve got some nice juicy questions this week. Spring is struggling into being here in Massachusetts, but I do feel the stirrings…so before my mind races off to the horrible things I’d like to be doing to various people, let’s get right to it. Dear Delilah, Any tips on deprogramming [...]
Archive for March, 2009
Monday, Monday…So Good To Me
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, kink psychology, newbies, relationships on March 30, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
As promised: Safewords 201 – Some common misconceptions
Posted in Explainers, tagged kink psychology, myths, noncon, safety, safewords on March 27, 2009 | 2 Comments »
My basic informational post about safewords is here. There are a few notions about safewords, however, that I’ve come across and would like to take a moment to dispel. Myth #1: Safewords are only for players who don’t know each other well. While it’s true that in part, the use of safewords is for the [...]
Safewords 101
Posted in Explainers, tagged clients, fantasies, how-to, links, newbies, safety, safewords on March 26, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Seeing as my most recent advice column mentioned safewords in both answers, I figured it was time for me to do my philosophizing about safewords – mostly for future reference. Some of you may be familiar with Jay Wiseman; his SM 101 is a great book for those starting out in BDSM, and his near-paranoia [...]
Monday Advice Time! – The Beginner’s Corner
Posted in Advice, tagged fantasies, how-to, newbies, power exchange, safewords, training, vanilla vs. kinky on March 23, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Hello, all! Today I have two questions from people just starting out; let’s hope that I can give them some good insight and not send them running screaming from all things kink. If you’d like to ask me a question, write me at delilah@dommedelilah.com, or if you’re really brave, comment here! Now: on with your [...]
New directions…
Posted in Explainers, Websites, tagged evolution, links, professional, the me guide on March 19, 2009 | 1 Comment »
So I’m planning a total rebuild of my professional website, and I’m starting the process a couple of weeks from now. I’m excited about it for a number of reasons, not the least of which is that I feel that my practice, as I’ve come to call it, is moving in new directions. When I [...]
It’s Monday…Time for your questions!
Posted in Advice, tagged bondage, kink on the cheap, polyamory on March 16, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Ah…spring finally feels like it’s here. The blood is starting to flow again, and I’m looking forward to having more appointments, doing more shoots, and having more hot sex. But first – your questions! We start with a nice long complex one. Mmm, juicy! *** Dear Delilah, About a year and a half ago I [...]
“Bow at yr feet O SUPREME GODDESS….” The Top 20 Funniest, Strangest, and Most Outrageous Inquiries I’ve Received
Posted in Uncategorized on March 12, 2009 | 2 Comments »
People email me all the time with strange requests. One guy wants me to hit him with a huge leather purse. Another wants to be diapered and force-fed yogurt. Some things I say yes to; I say no to as many; I judge none. But the manner of some of the requests…that’s another story. I [...]
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